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> Yes. FYI They will lie to you regardless. If you create a culture where you lie, then people will lie to you. If you create a culture where you are honest,
by light_hue_1 4y ago
> Yes. FYI They will lie to you regardless.
If you create a culture where you lie, then people will lie to you.
If you create a culture where you are honest, people will be honest back to you.
There's nothing more powerful than going to your team and saying "Look, I fucked this up. I need your help". Honesty is disarming.
I'm in a field where I manage scientists. If people start to lie to me or even start to bend the truth a little, we will waste years chasing ghosts. The people that work for me are very savvy at figuring out what I think might be true and they can always present just the right data to make me happy. I had to learn early on that I need to be really explicit: we need to do good work, it doesn't matter if I'm right or wrong, it doesn't matter if they're right or wrong, all that matters is progress.
So no. Your employees don't need to lie to you. Mine come to me regularly and explain what went wrong. Judgement-free. And we do deep dives to prevent problems in the future.
You are causing the problems, not them.
- tonyarkles 4y ago> So no. Your employees don't need to lie to you. Mine come to me regularly and explain what went wrong. Judgement-free. And we do deep dives to prevent problems in the future. I had a junior EE come and find me while I was on a smoke break to immediately inform me that he had mixed up two connectors and had accidentally put 48V into a piece of kit that could only handle 12V, resulting in $10k worth of blue smoke. That’s what a high trust engineering org looks like. He could have lied about it, I didn’t see it happen, “I dunno I went to reboot it and it didn’t power back on”. That’s what I want to see. He was open and honest with me because I don’t feed him bullshit.