The guilt/shame distinction is good. I’m hardly a leader in any sense that scales and I have very few illusions that’s gonna change, but I definitely recognize

The guilt/shame distinction is good. I’m hardly a leader in any sense that scales and I have very few illusions that’s gonna change, but I definitely recognize I’m more fit for the role of making decisions when I take my responsibility personally rather than taking my perceived or real failures personally. It’s been hard for me to learn and even hard to navigate in the past day. But I’m much better for regretting my failures and seeking to correct them, when I’m focused on how I could have been better helping and serving the people around me, than when I’m licking my wounds after I didn’t serve myself well.