3 ms·

>I'm reading online that I was stupid for buying a house in a bubble and that rates need to go up and house prices need to fall. Would you rather have perpetua

>I'm reading online that I was stupid for buying a house in a bubble and that rates need to go up and house prices need to fall. Would you rather have perpetually increasing housing prices? Wouldn’t that be even worse for your younger and future family members? I don’t think you’re stupid, but this does seem like shortsighted thinking. (I do hope you manage to get through this as unscathed as possible)

kypro 4y ago
> Would you rather have perpetually increasing housing prices? Well that's the problem. What do you do? Rent and wait for a crash that might never happen or just buy and hope it works out? Both are a huge risk. Those who waited in recent years now have to buy at much much higher prices. > Wouldn’t that be even worse for your younger and future family members? I want rates to rise and for housing affordability to come down. I even planned for that. What I didn't expect was for rates to rise 6% in a year or for there to potentially be a housing crash so soon after I brought. My house not decreasing in value with a slow increase in rates would have been fine. > I don’t think you’re stupid, but this does seem like shortsighted thinking. Yeah, perhaps. I just wish everyone who knew this was going to happen was around a couple of years ago to talk me out of it. Honestly it seemed like everyone was of the opinion that buying a house was generally a good financial decision until a few months ago. Now everyone is telling I made a stupid decision and should have rented. I don't know what to think anymore. I did try to calculate affordability under reasonable circumstances. Most people two years ago would have recommended checking that you could afford interest rates to normalise to 5%. I could (with a bit of a buffer) and if they were to go higher over say 5 years that would have been fine because I would have time to pay down my mortgage and hopefully would be making more by then. What I didn't account for was the huge increase in energy bills, cost of living plus interest rates going above 6% in a year. I know I should of and apparently people did, but I'm still not clear how I was meant to predict the largest affordability crisis in UK history. Not making excuses though, I feel upset and annoyed at the timing. But ultimately I just feel like a failure for letting everyone who relies on me down, and that's my doing. Hope this doesn't come off as me making excuses, I'm just trying to explain my perspective. I wasn't trying to gamble on house prices going up or knowingly making a risky bet as a lot of people have been suggesting to me recently. I was just trying to buy a house for my family.

kypro 4y ago

> Would you rather have perpetually increasing housing prices? Well that's the problem. What do you do? Rent and wait for a crash that might never happen or just buy and hope it works out? Both are a huge risk. Those who waited in recent years now have to buy at much much higher prices. > Wouldn’t that be even worse for your younger and future family members? I want rates to rise and for housing affordability to come down. I even planned for that. What I didn't expect was for rates to rise 6% in a year or for there to potentially be a housing crash so soon after I brought. My house not decreasing in value with a slow increase in rates would have been fine. > I don’t think you’re stupid, but this does seem like shortsighted thinking. Yeah, perhaps. I just wish everyone who knew this was going to happen was around a couple of years ago to talk me out of it. Honestly it seemed like everyone was of the opinion that buying a house was generally a good financial decision until a few months ago. Now everyone is telling I made a stupid decision and should have rented. I don't know what to think anymore. I did try to calculate affordability under reasonable circumstances. Most people two years ago would have recommended checking that you could afford interest rates to normalise to 5%. I could (with a bit of a buffer) and if they were to go higher over say 5 years that would have been fine because I would have time to pay down my mortgage and hopefully would be making more by then. What I didn't account for was the huge increase in energy bills, cost of living plus interest rates going above 6% in a year. I know I should of and apparently people did, but I'm still not clear how I was meant to predict the largest affordability crisis in UK history. Not making excuses though, I feel upset and annoyed at the timing. But ultimately I just feel like a failure for letting everyone who relies on me down, and that's my doing. Hope this doesn't come off as me making excuses, I'm just trying to explain my perspective. I wasn't trying to gamble on house prices going up or knowingly making a risky bet as a lot of people have been suggesting to me recently. I was just trying to buy a house for my family.