I'm kinda glad to read these comments, because they mostly align with my perception. The popular opinion among my circle of friends and relatives is that appear

I'm kinda glad to read these comments, because they mostly align with my perception. The popular opinion among my circle of friends and relatives is that appearance doesn't matter for men: it is all hard-work and grind. It is exhausting to make people see that all else being equal, physicality play a non negligible role.