I think reversing it treads heavy into opinion territory, which has no data - just people's feelings. If the roles were reversed, eg: were this not SF, people

I think reversing it treads heavy into opinion territory, which has no data - just people's feelings. If the roles were reversed, eg: were this not SF, people would be die hard about the data and what it shows - which is part of my point. We can't have our cake and eat it too. At some point you just have to set clear boundaries, like what I mentioned at the end.