I know, i tried to express that i feel they feel like they are somehow related… though that‘s not the important thing. The issue i have is, exactly the paradox

I know, i tried to express that i feel they feel like they are somehow related… though that‘s not the important thing. The issue i have is, exactly the paradox here… to me title expresses it very clear, but maybe i should rephrase to express it better. I will think about it and try. Thank you for your comment!