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You should always listen and observe what your instincts are telling you. Sometimes, they will lead you astray, but sometimes they give you valuable advice on
by RajT88 4y ago
You should always listen and observe what your instincts are telling you.
Sometimes, they will lead you astray, but sometimes they give you valuable advice on what to do. Learning what scenarios have a high/low success rate is useful. Just my 2 cents.
For example, I have good success rate just feeling around numbers and seeing what feels right when doing tasks like, "guess how many jelly beans in the jar". I have a very poor success rate in deciding whom to date.
- ellen364 4y agoA strategy that I’ve seen turn around someone’s relationship woes is asking yourself “Would I hire this person?” Not thinking about skills, particularly, but more about their attitude and approach to things. I was sceptical of the idea but, looking back, it changed the rules of thumb the person was using to assess potential partners. In their case, it worked really well.
- etrautmann 4y agoAlso / instead: would I want to coparent with this partner?
- trey-jones 4y agoThis was the approach that I took, kind of. I was too young to really understand what I was doing though, and any guesses about what someone will be like as a parent are probably just guesses, no matter how well you know them. Mostly I just tell people I got lucky. Not to discount your approach, I think it's a great criteria.
- blastro 4y agooh shit! :|