I somewhat agree with you. My main point is that we should be honest about the game we are playing and the side effects of the game in terms of psychological an

I somewhat agree with you. My main point is that we should be honest about the game we are playing and the side effects of the game in terms of psychological and social effects. If men are playing a numbers game, and are expected to pursue women “against all odds” then you really can’t blame men for trying to play and win the game. You can’t entirely blame men for going for a kiss even if he’s received mixed signals because the reality is that some women suck at giving signals. You can’t entirely blame men for doing weird, awkward shit because he’s trying a new strategy to win the game.