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Not everybody gives clear signals and not everybody is good at interpreting signals. And no, a kiss at the end of the night is not just a signal readability te

Not everybody gives clear signals and not everybody is good at interpreting signals. And no, a kiss at the end of the night is not just a signal readability test. It’s a masculinity test. If a guy doesn’t kiss a girl at the end of the night her impression is that he’s weak.

pc86 4y ago
> Not everybody gives clear signals and not everybody is good at interpreting signals. This is literally what I said. Being good at interpreting signals is attractive. Giving clear signals is attractive. > If a guy doesn’t kiss a girl at the end of the night her impression is that he’s weak. Sorry but this is some redpill bullshit.
- serverholic 4y ago
  No it’s not literally what you said. You completely missed the female side of the equation where some people are shit at giving signals. That changes the equation significantly because it incentivizes men to ignore signals to a certain extent. They’re more likely to just shoot their shot and see what happens. You might not like it but that’s the reality. Regarding weakness, I don’t care what word you use but women tend to think less of men when they don’t go for it and leave it to the woman to initiate. This is the lived experience of many, many men. What I think is interesting is that you’ve done two of the most common things I’ve seen woke people do. Deny female agency and deny reality. Everything is men’s fault and their lived experience doesn’t matter.
  - pc86 4y ago
    I said "giving clear signals is attractive" - if you're not giving clear signals, that's unattractive. Is that not "the female side of the equation?" I haven't denied anyone's agency or any reality, you just haven't proven what you think reality is. And trust me, if you know anything about me you wouldn't use "woke" as a descriptor. But imagine using "woke" unironically in 2022.
    - serverholic 4y ago
      Giving clear signals and picking up on signals are far from equal. Women are given FAR more leeway in their behavior. Let's not pretend that the equation is anywhere close to balanced. You're still denying reality in the same way that woke people do.

pc86 4y ago

> Not everybody gives clear signals and not everybody is good at interpreting signals. This is literally what I said. Being good at interpreting signals is attractive. Giving clear signals is attractive. > If a guy doesn’t kiss a girl at the end of the night her impression is that he’s weak. Sorry but this is some redpill bullshit.

serverholic 4y ago
No it’s not literally what you said. You completely missed the female side of the equation where some people are shit at giving signals. That changes the equation significantly because it incentivizes men to ignore signals to a certain extent. They’re more likely to just shoot their shot and see what happens. You might not like it but that’s the reality. Regarding weakness, I don’t care what word you use but women tend to think less of men when they don’t go for it and leave it to the woman to initiate. This is the lived experience of many, many men. What I think is interesting is that you’ve done two of the most common things I’ve seen woke people do. Deny female agency and deny reality. Everything is men’s fault and their lived experience doesn’t matter.
- pc86 4y ago
  I said "giving clear signals is attractive" - if you're not giving clear signals, that's unattractive. Is that not "the female side of the equation?" I haven't denied anyone's agency or any reality, you just haven't proven what you think reality is. And trust me, if you know anything about me you wouldn't use "woke" as a descriptor. But imagine using "woke" unironically in 2022.
  - serverholic 4y ago
    Giving clear signals and picking up on signals are far from equal. Women are given FAR more leeway in their behavior. Let's not pretend that the equation is anywhere close to balanced. You're still denying reality in the same way that woke people do.