It's called delusion. Your survival and quality of life depends on others liking you so we were selected to optimize for being liked by others. Case in point t

It's called delusion. Your survival and quality of life depends on others liking you so we were selected to optimize for being liked by others. Case in point the Queen Elizabeth died at 96 but given her quality of life in terms of novelty and free luxury stuff of the highest kind (and in all realms ranging from mansions to yachts to castles to planes to jewelery) she lived like 2000 years of a regular person life. All that because she was liked by millions of people (or the institution of monarchy is) Being liked by others is the only thing that matters for quality of life purposes, if you aren't then feeling shitty is a safety mechanism which promopts you to action and to pursue likeability to get some quality of life and not waste the precious little time that you have been given.