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I'm sorry but I share a border with Ukraine and unless you're close to the border to maybe interact with them more I'm not sure many in my own country would fee

I'm sorry but I share a border with Ukraine and unless you're close to the border to maybe interact with them more I'm not sure many in my own country would feel kinship with them. We're more concerned that the war is on our doorstep. I can assure you this is how most of my country feels. There are some that are virtue signaling and are very active in their support for Ukraine on social media but I've met enough people from random places to say that we don't in fact consider them our people. My only interaction with Ukrainians has been through video games and I've not seen any difference in behavior from Russians, mainly they've been selfish, refusing to speak English and just a pain to cooperate with

emptysongglass 4y ago
I've had quite the opposite experience working with Ukrainians as peers at my last company: I find them much like other Europeans. I very much care about their welfare and have given much of my own money to support them. I have offered my own apartment for shelter. If you don't want to care about them that's fine but please do not project your lack of empathy to others as to what this really is about.
- llampx 4y ago
  Just an observation: both of your experiences can be true, as you have personal experience with Ukrainians in real life and GP has experience online via video games.
  - emptysongglass 4y ago
    Yes, but splitting the difference should never be to become numb or indifferent to the tragedy happening daily to these people. This person had some bad experiences online gaming with people they somehow identified as Ukrainians from Ukraine and that suggests what exactly? That the rest of us are virtue signaling because of their bad experience?
    - jack_pp 4y ago
      The comment I replied to implied Ukrainians are "our" people. I don't think most of Europe thought of them like that before the west pushed their narrative and brought them to the attention while vilifying Russians. You have more sympathy for them compared to the average EU citizen that has never interacted with them because.. well you interacted with them and you had a positive experience. A lot of people make friends in the workplace and that affected you directly which I understand and I'm not saying you specifically are virtue signaling. But how many people are in your position and aren't just reacting to what the media is telling them? I just don't see why I personally would have more sympathy for Ukrainians than the other countless people who are at war all over the world and have been at war constantly for decades. I understand caring more about this war because it's near the west and there's a chance it triggers WW3 but I believe most people, especially US citizens only show sympathy because of their party affiliation or to virtue signal or because if you don't you'll get ostracized etc.

emptysongglass 4y ago

I've had quite the opposite experience working with Ukrainians as peers at my last company: I find them much like other Europeans. I very much care about their welfare and have given much of my own money to support them. I have offered my own apartment for shelter. If you don't want to care about them that's fine but please do not project your lack of empathy to others as to what this really is about.

llampx 4y ago
Just an observation: both of your experiences can be true, as you have personal experience with Ukrainians in real life and GP has experience online via video games.
- emptysongglass 4y ago
  Yes, but splitting the difference should never be to become numb or indifferent to the tragedy happening daily to these people. This person had some bad experiences online gaming with people they somehow identified as Ukrainians from Ukraine and that suggests what exactly? That the rest of us are virtue signaling because of their bad experience?
  - jack_pp 4y ago
    The comment I replied to implied Ukrainians are "our" people. I don't think most of Europe thought of them like that before the west pushed their narrative and brought them to the attention while vilifying Russians. You have more sympathy for them compared to the average EU citizen that has never interacted with them because.. well you interacted with them and you had a positive experience. A lot of people make friends in the workplace and that affected you directly which I understand and I'm not saying you specifically are virtue signaling. But how many people are in your position and aren't just reacting to what the media is telling them? I just don't see why I personally would have more sympathy for Ukrainians than the other countless people who are at war all over the world and have been at war constantly for decades. I understand caring more about this war because it's near the west and there's a chance it triggers WW3 but I believe most people, especially US citizens only show sympathy because of their party affiliation or to virtue signal or because if you don't you'll get ostracized etc.