My comment ITT is about our own ability to raise or lower the emotional stakes in a conversation. I don't have a naturally high EQ, I have to exercise it and c

My comment ITT is about our own ability to raise or lower the emotional stakes in a conversation. I don't have a naturally high EQ, I have to exercise it and constantly reflect. I'm middle-aged (I worked solo in my first career). If I can reach 40 and still be learning social skills, maybe others here also could get better at: > It's really not that difficult to show the right amount of candor while being objective