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Maybe I'm just rationalising my own hoarding tendency but I think society needs some hoarders to enable others to live there Kondō lifestyle. Sometimes friends

Maybe I'm just rationalising my own hoarding tendency but I think society needs some hoarders to enable others to live there Kondō lifestyle. Sometimes friends who know my habit try (often successfully) to offload their stuff to me. Just to ask me years later if I happen to own exactly the item they offloaded because they need it.

rzzzt 4y ago
Does keeping friends' items around bring you joy?
culi 4y ago
There's lots of Library of Things projects around the country, but they're usually informal mutual aid type events. I think something much better organized and funded (maybe even some nice software to go along with it) could make a huge difference in our waste crisis Also, we should be charging people for their trash. Both companies and consumers imo. It's kinda ridiculous to offload so much waste as an economic externality. I live near a university and every year I get to watch a new set of students move into the student housing. Towards the start of the school year the dumpsters are filled with Ikea and Amazon boxes form all the new furniture. At move out time they have to bring these absolutely massive metal containers (like 3x the size of a shipping container) for the students to through out all their furniture (most of which has been used for less than a year). It's particularly bad with this university since a fifth are international students. 80% of the furniture in my house was "rescued". We used to hoard it and sell it on Craiglist and the like. We once sold a $200 marble table we got for free. Also have two pairs of working air pods and a bunch of $100+ shoes (including some Jordans and a pair of Yeezys) that we just haven't gotten around to selling yet. We also have a bench press and weights, 2 working grills, and too many office chairs. All this and we still save every glass jar and use them as our cups. Unfortunately, my housemates are not big fans of the mismatched furniture look, but I find it quite charming :( It's wild how much waste could be averted if all that furniture was simply stored on a plot of land over the summer until the next wave of students came in and then we let them pick through it. We used to pick up everything we could sell, but it just became too much of an effort because of the sheer volume of furniture
- fortran77 4y ago
  We do pay for trash here, explictly. It's not "free", but I think every houshold is mandated to pay for some level of trash service as a form of a tax. You can pay more for larger bins, etc. If we charged too much, it would encourage hoarding, wouldn't it?
  - UweSchmidt 4y ago
    If trash was expensive and cover the true externalities, we might more long-lasting products that are easy to disassemble, repair and recycle. Maybe it's the general crappiness, the planned obsolescence in everything that makes us hold on to all sorts of "spare parts". Back in the day when producing items was hard, a wardrobe would be handed down through multiple generations. Hoarding wasn't feasible but also not necessary.
  - benj111 4y ago
    It would encourage fly tipping.
- toast0 4y ago
  Trash service isn't free; it's usually included in a rental though. If you make it too expensive (in dollars, time or transit), people will find ways to dispose of items without paying. Mattresses have a way of showing up in public right-of-ways almost everywhere, but I live in a semi-rural area, and there's so much crap dumped in my woods and mine aren't that bad; one of my neighbors did some development work in preparation of selling some small parcels out of his land and had to have like 13 derelict cars removed that had been dumped in the woods; on my property, the larger things I've seen a really long radiator, a bath tub, a pressure tank from an abandoned (unmapped too) 10 foot deep hand dug well that I also had the pleasure of filling at my expense. Are there any thrift store 'charities' nearby? maybe they can arrange to pick up some of the furniture and sell it.
mod 4y ago
Oh my God, my uncle has been doing this to me and I only just realized it because of your comment! At least it's useful stuff, though.
AussieWog93 4y ago
This is literally my job, as an eBay seller! :) That said, I do think it's something best left to businesses rather than random people. Moving the eBay stuff out of our home and into a dedicated office/warehouse space has been one of the biggest stress-reducers in my life.
- benj111 4y ago
  I can relate, I'm in the same boat, except everythings still in my house. Are you in the UK? Any tips?
  - AussieWog93 4y ago
    I'm Aussie, but feel free to reach out via email in bio. We ended up renting a commercial property nearby. Has done wonders for productivity, work-life balance and our ability to hire staff.
    - benj111 4y ago
      I was thinking tax, and available spaces and geography specific things. Thanks for the offer though.
legulere 4y ago
The life-changing magic of tidying up also talks about that tendency and how it is bad.

rzzzt 4y ago

Does keeping friends' items around bring you joy?

culi 4y ago

There's lots of Library of Things projects around the country, but they're usually informal mutual aid type events. I think something much better organized and funded (maybe even some nice software to go along with it) could make a huge difference in our waste crisis Also, we should be charging people for their trash. Both companies and consumers imo. It's kinda ridiculous to offload so much waste as an economic externality. I live near a university and every year I get to watch a new set of students move into the student housing. Towards the start of the school year the dumpsters are filled with Ikea and Amazon boxes form all the new furniture. At move out time they have to bring these absolutely massive metal containers (like 3x the size of a shipping container) for the students to through out all their furniture (most of which has been used for less than a year). It's particularly bad with this university since a fifth are international students. 80% of the furniture in my house was "rescued". We used to hoard it and sell it on Craiglist and the like. We once sold a $200 marble table we got for free. Also have two pairs of working air pods and a bunch of $100+ shoes (including some Jordans and a pair of Yeezys) that we just haven't gotten around to selling yet. We also have a bench press and weights, 2 working grills, and too many office chairs. All this and we still save every glass jar and use them as our cups. Unfortunately, my housemates are not big fans of the mismatched furniture look, but I find it quite charming :( It's wild how much waste could be averted if all that furniture was simply stored on a plot of land over the summer until the next wave of students came in and then we let them pick through it. We used to pick up everything we could sell, but it just became too much of an effort because of the sheer volume of furniture

fortran77 4y ago
We do pay for trash here, explictly. It's not "free", but I think every houshold is mandated to pay for some level of trash service as a form of a tax. You can pay more for larger bins, etc. If we charged too much, it would encourage hoarding, wouldn't it?
- UweSchmidt 4y ago
  If trash was expensive and cover the true externalities, we might more long-lasting products that are easy to disassemble, repair and recycle. Maybe it's the general crappiness, the planned obsolescence in everything that makes us hold on to all sorts of "spare parts". Back in the day when producing items was hard, a wardrobe would be handed down through multiple generations. Hoarding wasn't feasible but also not necessary.
- benj111 4y ago
  It would encourage fly tipping.
toast0 4y ago
Trash service isn't free; it's usually included in a rental though. If you make it too expensive (in dollars, time or transit), people will find ways to dispose of items without paying. Mattresses have a way of showing up in public right-of-ways almost everywhere, but I live in a semi-rural area, and there's so much crap dumped in my woods and mine aren't that bad; one of my neighbors did some development work in preparation of selling some small parcels out of his land and had to have like 13 derelict cars removed that had been dumped in the woods; on my property, the larger things I've seen a really long radiator, a bath tub, a pressure tank from an abandoned (unmapped too) 10 foot deep hand dug well that I also had the pleasure of filling at my expense. Are there any thrift store 'charities' nearby? maybe they can arrange to pick up some of the furniture and sell it.

mod 4y ago

Oh my God, my uncle has been doing this to me and I only just realized it because of your comment! At least it's useful stuff, though.

AussieWog93 4y ago

This is literally my job, as an eBay seller! :) That said, I do think it's something best left to businesses rather than random people. Moving the eBay stuff out of our home and into a dedicated office/warehouse space has been one of the biggest stress-reducers in my life.

benj111 4y ago
I can relate, I'm in the same boat, except everythings still in my house. Are you in the UK? Any tips?
- AussieWog93 4y ago
  I'm Aussie, but feel free to reach out via email in bio. We ended up renting a commercial property nearby. Has done wonders for productivity, work-life balance and our ability to hire staff.
  - benj111 4y ago
    I was thinking tax, and available spaces and geography specific things. Thanks for the offer though.

legulere 4y ago

The life-changing magic of tidying up also talks about that tendency and how it is bad.