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So basically, you do want to be "that guy", but you want people to think that you don't enjoy doing it so you can beg some social excusal to do it, rather then
by kepler1 4y ago
So basically, you do want to be "that guy", but you want people to think that you don't enjoy doing it so you can beg some social excusal to do it, rather then just outright do it with no apology and clearly be "that guy"...
- adrianmonk 4y agoYes, you're choosing to do what "that guy" would do, hopefully only in exceptional circumstances. Like with any apology, people who say "not to be that guy" can be sincere or just making an excuse to make their own lives easier.