The lack of info in the inquiry causes the distress, as there is often a reason that the info is being withheld. Otherwise there is usually more information in

The lack of info in the inquiry causes the distress, as there is often a reason that the info is being withheld. Otherwise there is usually more information in the request. "Can we talk?" has only ever come from my managers when someone is leaving. With my family, it is usually because someone has died. Otherwise, there is usually another sentence about what is going to be discussed.