It's a very personal question, and thus there can be no wrong answer other than a lie. Even that would have to be taken at face value. To OP those things are w

It's a very personal question, and thus there can be no wrong answer other than a lie. Even that would have to be taken at face value. To OP those things are what they said- the fact you see them differently is fine, but irrelevant. Do you have a lowest hill to die on? I've been mulling it over, but can't come up with anything. I'm quite sure I've got some pretty nonsensical ones.