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> Lesbians are bearing 90% of the brunt on this, of course, being shamed and guilted into having sex with men. Yeah, I heard about that and it seemed super-str
by dvfjsdhgfv 4y ago
> Lesbians are bearing 90% of the brunt on this, of course, being shamed and guilted into having sex with men.
Yeah, I heard about that and it seemed super-strange. I mean, lesbian or not, I have the right to have sex with whoever I want, not the other way round, no? Forcing someone to have sex is sexual harassment and should be punished, not supported/endorsed by anyone.
- kleiba 4y agoOf course you don't have a right to have sex with whomever you want, it needs to be a voluntary and consentual agreement between all parties involved.
- dvfjsdhgfv 4y agoYou're right, I didn't formulate it in a clear way. What I mean that if I'm not interested, nobody can force me to have sex with me, no matter what reason. Siding with those who insist on having sex in such situations is an extremely worrying phenomenon.
- thefz 4y ago> Lesbians are bearing 90% of the brunt on this, of course, being shamed and guilted into having sex with men. I think what OP means is that if lesbians refuse to have sex with trans men (male-to-female) who declare themselves as women, they (the lesbians) are marked as transphobes. As contorted as it is.
- togs 4y ago> trans men (male-to-female) trans men (female-to-male)[1] trans women (male-to-female)[2] [1] https://www.dictionary.com/browse/trans-man https://www.dictionary.com/browse/trans-man [2] https://www.dictionary.com/browse/trans-woman https://www.dictionary.com/browse/trans-woman > I think what OP means is that if a lesbian declines sex with a trans women (male-to-female) on the basis of the latter's assigned gender at birth (male), the former is marked as a transphobe.