My wife uses cannabis for pain management and she used it through pregnancy. Her OBGYN was aware and didn't recommend against it. Our daughter is 6 now and we s

My wife uses cannabis for pain management and she used it through pregnancy. Her OBGYN was aware and didn't recommend against it. Our daughter is 6 now and we still think about it. Anything she has trouble with, I always wonder; did we do this to her? Though I don't know that there was a better choice available. Are there effective painkillers that don't have risks for developing babies? Is good for a developing baby to be receiving constant stress hormones from a mother in intense pain?