To some degree, I agree with you. There's a continuum--you can't just leave children completely alone to choose everything, they lack the maturity and ethical d

To some degree, I agree with you. There's a continuum--you can't just leave children completely alone to choose everything, they lack the maturity and ethical decision-making frameworks to do that. On the other extreme, you shouldn't brainwash them so that as they mature, they can't actually make these decisions on their own.