I'm not parent and I agree that it was not a carefully thought-out comment, but I'll give it a shot. comment 1: How dare she say 3 million is a sacrifice? That

I'm not parent and I agree that it was not a carefully thought-out comment, but I'll give it a shot. comment 1: How dare she say 3 million is a sacrifice? That's more money than many of us will see in an entire decade, if not more! None of us can get imagine getting 3 million! comment 2: Well she could make 10 million, so 3 million to her is chump change. My guess is as follows: The "us" in comment 1 is the poor, the failure to "read the room" is comment 2 mentioning the 10 million when the vast majority of people identify with comment 1 and thus think mentioning 10 million when even 3 million is unattainable is tone deaf. Thus, loosely speaking, 10 million is cake, 3 million is bread. But I agree with you that the analogy is not perfect.