With all due respect, you immediately question that there is a problem. Why ? I take what OP says at face value, there's a problem, can any of us help. Who a

With all due respect, you immediately question that there is a problem. Why ? I take what OP says at face value, there's a problem, can any of us help. Who are you to judge what's loud for someone else ? Or cold, or hot, or anything else ? If that's how you reply to a plea for help and information, I'd suggest you don't reply at all.