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How does cases of workaholism suit into this? That is, specifically, persons focusing too much on their career for big parts of their lives and then later regre
by arketyp 15y ago
How does cases of workaholism suit into this? That is, specifically, persons focusing too much on their career for big parts of their lives and then later regretting never having spent time with their family, enjoying a slow day etc. Isn't this almost reverse procrastination? Somehow you have deluded yourself that the future reward is worth the short term costs. And I guess in the end the habit would be so hard to break that it is indeed a sort of short-term procrastination kind of deal once again. You keep working all days because it is the easiest choice to deal with. Stepping down is such a drastic choice and a big commitment and scary and so on.
I guess I also want to point out that these things are really complicated dynamics. How do I know how much I should deny myself the instant rewards? What do I really know about the worth of this task I have setup for myself and its benefits? Why do we procrastinate? Well, because we don't know, because we're uncertain, because we doubt.
- jodrellblank 15y agoWell, because we don't know, because we're uncertain, because we doubt. What about the people who don't know and don't procrastinate? What's bad about uncertainty and doubt? What are you afraid of if it "goes wrong"? If it was uncertain what would happen but any outcome was exciting, you wouldn't procrastinate, right?
- arketyp 15y agoWhat about the people who don't know and don't procrastinate? I guess they got God's blessing. I don't understand your point. If it was uncertain what would happen but any outcome was exciting, you wouldn't procrastinate, right? That's exactly the time I would procrastinate. Or am I missing something?
- huherto 15y agoIMHO, workalcoholics get short term rewards by working. And they get it every day and with every action that they take.