> Usually when someone has some trouble, if you can help you do your part, and the trouble isn't your fault. There will always be someone that you can help. An

> Usually when someone has some trouble, if you can help you do your part, and the trouble isn't your fault. There will always be someone that you can help. And there will always be another charity that wants your money. In many of those cases, the person or charity is a worthy cause. But you cannot help all of them, so you must decide which ones are important the most important to _you_ to help. When you turn away a charity because you've already decided to give to different ones, that doesn't mean you think the charity is unworthy, nor does it mean that you're a bad person for not giving to _that_ charity;