When I see a message pop up that gets deleted before I get a chance to read it, I'm left wondering for ages what it could have been. I'm generally of the opini

When I see a message pop up that gets deleted before I get a chance to read it, I'm left wondering for ages what it could have been. I'm generally of the opinion people are free to say (almost) whatever they like to me, and deal with the consequences. Virtually though, I guess it's a little different. People type things they wouldn't say face to face, so maybe being able to delete them before they're read is the fix for that.