You may find this post by someone who spent most of his life poor then became reasonably well-off enlightening, specifically his comments about how he was histo

You may find this post by someone who spent most of his life poor then became reasonably well-off enlightening, specifically his comments about how he was historically confused by the rich people in his life avoiding the topic of money: https://www.residentcontrarian.com/p/on-being-rich-ish-lessons-i-learned https://www.residentcontrarian.com/p/on-being-rich-ish-lesso... That is - you may feel much more awkward about the wealth disparity than the janitor himself does.