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some custodians like to shoot the shit. others do not. same with lobby staff. when they do i've found that it's worth listening, they sometimes have very inter
by a-dub 4y ago
some custodians like to shoot the shit. others do not. same with lobby staff.
when they do i've found that it's worth listening, they sometimes have very interesting things to say.
same used to go for nyc cab drivers, although it's a bit different in the uber era. i have a book sitting on my shelf that was written (and self promoted) by a cab driver.
- 4oo4 4y agoVery true. Everyone at the very least deserves a basic greeting and acknowledgement, but it's unrealistic to expect anyone on the job to socialize at length. Especially if that person was just berated or humiliated by someone "important" on a power trip, extremely stressed by the job, or is preoccupied with personal issues that you have no idea about. I've been in that position before. I think privilieged people that don't have the same kind of stressors in their life that working class people frequently have, can then scoff when that person doesn't have the time or energy for a conversation, as if they expect those beneath them to entertain them with conversation in addition to their job duties. It's surprising how much taking 5 seconds to say "Hi, how's it going" can improve any interaction.