This may not be perfect, but I have regular conversations with my kids about what they do online. With Discord in particular, we have a rule that they are only

This may not be perfect, but I have regular conversations with my kids about what they do online. With Discord in particular, we have a rule that they are only allowed to be on discord servers where they know everyone IRL. They use Discord to figure out what other things they’re going to do either in person or in an online game. So this rule hasn’t been hard to follow for them.