3 ms·
I incessantly question and doubt everything as part of having lots of anxiety and depression. Reading these responses makes me wonder if the parents would say t
by 1MachineElf 4y ago
I incessantly question and doubt everything as part of having lots of anxiety and depression. Reading these responses makes me wonder if the parents would say the same thing, disagree, or possibly say something else.
As for a specific decision, my mother tells me it was encouraging me to befriend a supervisor who all of my other coworkers hated. This was at a sushi bar. The guy had an inflated ego, put other staff members down, got on everyone's case, and held grudges. So mother tells me I should just do everything the guy wants, and as months go by, there is no one on the team who the supervisor trusts more than me. Even though my performance was average, I was his favorite employee. It got to the point where I was fixing his computer, invited to his home, and doing his math homework for him (he was in culinary school). When I finally moved on to another job, he begged me to stay. Years later he was super friendly to me once when we randomly encountered each other. I think the moral of the whole thing was to not quit just because someone with authority over you has a crap personality.