My parents gave me freedom, far more than I needed or wanted. Growing up I learned that so many kids are burdened with meddling, planning parents who use offspr

My parents gave me freedom, far more than I needed or wanted. Growing up I learned that so many kids are burdened with meddling, planning parents who use offspring as a projection screen. I'm really glad my parents never pushed me to do anything, except maybe instilling the value of education (but it cost me no effort to go to university, so pushing it very much was not, never did a second of homework). As consequence, I usually that what I feel like, but have no urge to do things because I can; off course I can do them, but I'll do those things I want to do, not because they are (extravagant?) options.