In the job market you are willing to work in, can you get the $s you are wanting? By that, I don't mean there's a possibility some company might pay you the $s,

In the job market you are willing to work in, can you get the $s you are wanting? By that, I don't mean there's a possibility some company might pay you the $s, but that it would be reasonable to expect quite a number of places to pay you those $s. If not, then your market value isn't the same as it is in other locations. You already demonstrated in your question that there is value in a particular location, for you, family and friends. For companies, they operate in whatever locations they think is best and pay competitive $s for that location.