I want to make friends on my own terms, rather than letting them initiate, I guess? Maybe this is evidence of narcissistic traits. Also, I don't really want to

I want to make friends on my own terms, rather than letting them initiate, I guess? Maybe this is evidence of narcissistic traits. Also, I don't really want to talk to like minded people. I already think like myself, and I don't really want a hugbox of people who think like me so we can spend time telling each other things we agree with. I'm interested in challenging my ideas a bit, and encountering new perspectives. All that said, I use this username on other social networks so if people are determined they can find me that way.