> As I've gotten older, I've become less convinced to the value of "advice", but far more convinced to the value of learning by watching what people do. I've s

> As I've gotten older, I've become less convinced to the value of "advice", but far more convinced to the value of learning by watching what people do. I've seen this too. In my case it was more being social to people in general. A person with a similar-ish personality. I saw what he was doing, copy/paste for me.