I was single for a ridiculously long time. Now I'm not. 1) "Looks shouldn't matter!" But they do. You don't need to be a model, but you probably need to be

I was single for a ridiculously long time. Now I'm not. 1) "Looks shouldn't matter!" But they do. You don't need to be a model, but you probably need to be more healthy. I went to the gym almost every morning (missed about 3 days) for a year, got in better shape, etc. Now use a home gym. 2) Be less judgemental. Log, splinter, eye, etc. You're not perfect, so don't expect her to be. 3) Don't be argumentative. The Internet trains western internerds to be argumentative little snots. It's pathetic. Just don't be like that. 4) Ignore the crazy twitter feminists. Actual women like to feel appreciated and respected. Ask about her field of expertise, her hobbies, etc, and appreciate her expertise in those areas. 5) Stay away from chicks with high bodycount. They are a health risk at the very least. If she doesn't respect her body and yours, you're not safe. 6) Have goals and work at advancing your life.