As long as you are talking about pertinent things, and not hauling out meetup-lines. "Do you know a good brand of pasta sauce? I don't like garlic, and it seem

As long as you are talking about pertinent things, and not hauling out meetup-lines. "Do you know a good brand of pasta sauce? I don't like garlic, and it seems everything has garlic in it." "Are the waist sizes honest here? I'm a 36 but some places that's like 40 inches." And leave it at that. Maybe somebody will continue the conversation, but most won't. It's a numbers game.