BTW, another book I can't recommend enough in the same vein: https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Adult-Overparenting-Prepare/dp/1250093635 https://www.amazon.com/H

BTW, another book I can't recommend enough in the same vein: https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Adult-Overparenting-Prepare/dp/1250093635 https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Adult-Overparenting-Prepare... I forget if it was this book or somewhere else I heard it, but they had a pretty pithy comment that's stuck with me since - something along the lines of "The objective of parenting isn't to raise good kids, your job as a parent is to raise good adults".