I don't know whether to laugh or cry when I hear women bemoaning the lack of "good guys" on dating apps. Inevitably when I ask them about their height filters

I don't know whether to laugh or cry when I hear women bemoaning the lack of "good guys" on dating apps. Inevitably when I ask them about their height filters they look at me like I'm dumb and say "oh, only 5' 11" or above, duh". My wife, who is 5' 2" told me she did the same thing and would have never met me online (I'm 5' 9" in tall boots).