For me it’s the opposite, when I get a match on a dating app my intentions are clear to the woman so it’s easy for me to go straight in flirting/being romantic

For me it’s the opposite, when I get a match on a dating app my intentions are clear to the woman so it’s easy for me to go straight in flirting/being romantic etc. In a neutral setting you first have to direct the conversation away from the neutral towards the romantic and then go from there. Much harder and more time intensive.