The apps are garbage. The old okcupid was the best of them, but still not great, and it's ruined now (also, everyone has moved on to other apps that are worse)

The apps are garbage. The old okcupid was the best of them, but still not great, and it's ruined now (also, everyone has moved on to other apps that are worse). They're designed to maximize revenue rather than the happiness of the user. You also have to put in a shitload of work to make a slick profile, an in a lot of people's cases it's well worded bullshit. Profiles should be homogenous in form and style, and should include video Q/A in a fixed format so WYSIWYG. No clever bullshit, no editing images, just videos of your average self answering question.