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ITT people who never used dating apps and have been married for years giving their opinion. Jokes aside... Dating apps suck. Generally so does going on first d
by AlwaysRock 4y ago
ITT people who never used dating apps and have been married for years giving their opinion.
Jokes aside... Dating apps suck. Generally so does going on first dates. So does interviewing for a job. So does making new/any friends.
Lots of things are hard and are a numbers game. The nice part is that HOPEFULLY you only have to hit a home run once. You don't have to become an expert at dating. You just have to try enough to meet someone who is as weird and fucked up as you and wants to spend a lot of time being weird and fucked up together.
- z3c0 4y agoDating apps do suck, and they likely always will, because they have little incentive to help their users find a long-term partner. Dating apps are "rape-whistle" companies, meaning that if they actually solve the problems that they claim to solve, they would diminish their market. If a given app has been snatched up by Match, it's almost certainly being optimized towards having you addicted to swiping.
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- mrwh 4y agoI'm currently trying to buy a house. It sucks! Does indeed feel like a general rule that anything with the potential to improve one's life significantly will frequently be unpleasant to go through.