There's no "total control" of anything in life. Not even close. > Others turn 21 and buy a house. A vanishingly small number of "others", no matter the countr

There's no "total control" of anything in life. Not even close. > Others turn 21 and buy a house. A vanishingly small number of "others", no matter the country or culture, can buy a house at 21 years of age. And even less, if you're talking of actually outright buying, and not getting a decades long mortgage.