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> I can't flirt "on cue" I prefer to avoid flirting. In my experience, flirting can be done with anybody, I could even flirt with a male person. The person is
by mpol 4y ago
> I can't flirt "on cue"
I prefer to avoid flirting. In my experience, flirting can be done with anybody, I could even flirt with a male person. The person is interchangeable in flirting. Being curious about the person and shared interests and especially the shared view on relationships is for me a good way to start a conversation.
- bckr 4y agoPeople seem to equate flirting with some weird things. I guess most of us did in middle school. But now I do flirt with people I want to befriend as well as date. Lots of eye contact and smiling. Quick gentle touches on the shoulder to emphasize a point or accompany laughter. Extra acknowledgement of their points, ideas, viewpoints. Light, pleasant teasing ("Look at you, stunning everyone with your outfit, Okay, I see you over there"). Gotta be willing to try on new personas and interpersonal behaviors. Maybe take an improv class.