Different people have a different "style" for this. I prefer to work people whose style is similar to mine. I think most people are the same way. That's all thi

Different people have a different "style" for this. I prefer to work people whose style is similar to mine. I think most people are the same way. That's all this comes down to, sadly. There's no formula to that will ever solve this mismatch. Be tolerant of others and gently suggest they can help themselves, in the future, by helping you. Be thankful for the times you get to work with people who share a common style with you.