Tell them to fuck off. Seriously. Set boundaries. Using "no access" as an excuse implies that if you're reachable you're on the hook to serve other people's de

Tell them to fuck off. Seriously. Set boundaries. Using "no access" as an excuse implies that if you're reachable you're on the hook to serve other people's desires at all times. People need to know that there are times in your life that are reserved for you only, and some people have a problem with that, so you have to tell them yourself in no uncertain terms.