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Is there any culture in the world without significant taboos or social rules around sex? I can totally see why that’d be the default, simply because sex is suc

by tjs8rj 4y ago

Is there any culture in the world without significant taboos or social rules around sex? I can totally see why that’d be the default, simply because sex is such a charged act in any culture. Purely biologically: it’s a very vulnerable act and has tons of “political/social implications” in a social species. Who you have sex with and be that vulnerable with signals your “allegiance” in a sense. Even chimps have taboos and social rules around sex for this reason. Who you have sex (or don’t have sex) with decides who’s in charge, who you support, what your clique is, and so on. A chimp caught having sex with the wrong chimp might be attacked.

wizofaus 4y ago
Chimps, as far as I'm aware, don't talk about sex. I suppose my naive view is that the more society is prepared to talk about their behaviours, the less likely it is we'll indulge in the worse aspects of such behaviour. Hence taboos over discussing particular subjects have become ingrained despite being most likely counterproductive, at least for society at large, even if they serve the interests of some.
- tjs8rj 4y ago
  I was primarily responding to your suggestion that strict social rules around sex were an intrinsically Christian take (or religious in nature). Beyond that though, Chimps have social hierarchies around sex. It’s hard to imagine why something you believe to be so counterproductive would exist so persistently across cultures and times unless it had serious value.
  - wizofaus 4y ago
    I don't even necessarily believe it's counterproductive, it just seems intuitively expected that closing off a topic for broader discussion is a way to breed unhealthy attitudes and abusive behaviours involving sex. But doing so seems to have benefited some people I suppose. Or maybe it really is due to an innate desire to maintain an aura of mystery around it. I don't think anyone really knows.

by tjs8rj 4y ago

wizofaus 4y ago

Chimps, as far as I'm aware, don't talk about sex. I suppose my naive view is that the more society is prepared to talk about their behaviours, the less likely it is we'll indulge in the worse aspects of such behaviour. Hence taboos over discussing particular subjects have become ingrained despite being most likely counterproductive, at least for society at large, even if they serve the interests of some.

tjs8rj 4y ago
I was primarily responding to your suggestion that strict social rules around sex were an intrinsically Christian take (or religious in nature). Beyond that though, Chimps have social hierarchies around sex. It’s hard to imagine why something you believe to be so counterproductive would exist so persistently across cultures and times unless it had serious value.
- wizofaus 4y ago
  I don't even necessarily believe it's counterproductive, it just seems intuitively expected that closing off a topic for broader discussion is a way to breed unhealthy attitudes and abusive behaviours involving sex. But doing so seems to have benefited some people I suppose. Or maybe it really is due to an innate desire to maintain an aura of mystery around it. I don't think anyone really knows.