Don't be a sleep martyr. Some people get the idea in their head that they'll stay up because the short sleep won't be worth the trouble, and I think a part of t

Don't be a sleep martyr. Some people get the idea in their head that they'll stay up because the short sleep won't be worth the trouble, and I think a part of that is motivated by "I haven't slept in X hours/days" or "only X hours in Y days." Don't do that. Communicate with your wife, don't waste time, and tag her out when feasible, or else this generates resentment.