>So the sooner she gets back into a full-time job the better. OTOH, careful with this. Your wife has already endured her entire upbringing of people telling he

>So the sooner she gets back into a full-time job the better. OTOH, careful with this. Your wife has already endured her entire upbringing of people telling her that her worth is tied to her job, and you may be the only chance to encourage her to stay home with the kids, should she want this. If you fail to signal your assent to this arrangement, she is plenty likely to feel trapped needing to go back to work when she wants to be home with babies and young children.