I'm not religious anymore but this feel applicable: > Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out

I'm not religious anymore but this feel applicable: > Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. - Matthew 7:5 (Sorry, I grew up on KJV, it what I remember and what sounds right in my head)