I am not sure you have much experience with children. Telling a child that you know what their personality will be because they are a copy of you and you would

I am not sure you have much experience with children. Telling a child that you know what their personality will be because they are a copy of you and you would respond a certain way or do a certain thing is an absolute recipe for ensuring that the child will do the opposite of that thing. What you're describing is a procedure for creating as divergent of a personality in your clone as genetics will allow.