All money is our money. Families don't compete for resources. My spouse is not working right now, but when she did, she made a quarter of my income. >until it

All money is our money. Families don't compete for resources. My spouse is not working right now, but when she did, she made a quarter of my income. >until it came time to use that rainy day funds and she started feeling that we were spending her money. Why are you married?