Having a kid is cool. It definitely makes some things more difficult, but then they giggle and you share your world with them and it works out. The first few mo

Having a kid is cool. It definitely makes some things more difficult, but then they giggle and you share your world with them and it works out. The first few months can be pretty rough as the new kiddo really interferes with your sleep schedule. They'll need constant attention, too, from an adult. It's temporary, though. This is why parental leave is so crucial and it is outrageous it is not legally mandated by U.S. law. The United States policy decisions are absolutely hostile to raising kids unfortunately (terrible health insurance system, very expensive child daycare, underfunded public schools, etc). Do you live close to other family? That extra support has helped me a lot. We moved to be closer to family some time ago in anticipation of having a baby. Once the kiddo starts getting into a predictable sleep routine, things start feeling better. I personally really like working from home with a new baby. The child care burden is always on another adult besides me during the workday (which is important), but I can step in on my breaks or be an extra set of hands for five minutes when the other person needs to go to the bathroom or whatever. I think I personally would be upset if I had to go into the office and couldn't be nearby. But that's subjective. And I'm blessed with a good support network with several close family members who love this baby, too, and are eager to help. Having that extra support has made it enjoyable, whereas I can imagine things playing out differently and me being much more upset and stressed.